I’m working on a few lines in response to a discussion I had the other day in my contemporary practice class about Critical Architecture. I’ll post it eventually.
But, on to the most recent adventures of the future Bennetts. We went the megalopolis of the South that is Lavonia, GA. There are so many people there that they out number the cows [I think]. We spent a few days with my grandparents, checking up on and spending time with them. They are getting very lonely because they don’t really leave the house that much anymore because my grandmother doesn’t move very well. But, This weekend was good for them to see their grandson and future grandaughter! We got there pretty late, after a pretty intense discussion that exposed a lot of insecurities we both had about our pasts that we later talked about and devised strategies to address them. Its sobering sometimes when you think you have an area of your life undercontrol, even dominated, and then something shows you that you didn’t. I was relying on myself to deal with things that I need to give to God. That seems to be the theme of the season I’m in.
In the morning [after a night that some of the boundaries for our relationship broken – see Ashley’s blog], we went to the best restaurant this side of the Mississippi [River]. Its an all-you-can-eat family style southern food glutton fest. They bring out five entrees, 6-7 vegetables, fruit, and then dessert for as long as you can stuff it in. It was good. The restaurant is part of a huge property that has chalets, stables, petting zoos and nature trails that all combine to make a great place to take a vacation. Ashley and I plan to take a trip there on our own in the next few years. On the way back from the Dillard House [the restaurant], we stopped at the “world” famouse Tallulah Gorge, where the famous Wallinda walked across it on a tight-rope. Its a beautiful view from a lookout/tourist store that has benches where we sat, looked out, and ate ice cream. It was a good day, and a great thing for my grandparents to do to get out of the house.
We stayed for church in the morning [no problems that night] so we could take my grandmother [she can’t go on her own and hasn’t been in months]. We/I saw a bunch of people I hadn’t seen in a while who often think I am my dad. My grandma saw all her friends that she normally doesn’t get to see. The church had been spruced up a little bit since the last time I was there. They have three plasma screens in the sanctuary in addition the the projector screen they already had. They also had a music minister. We ate the left overs from the Dillard House for lunch and then headed back to the ATL.
We decided to take advantage of the extra time to go out for dinner and just spend sometime talking away from school, work, family and the wedding. It was a neverending pasta kind of dinner, and we were there for more than two hours. It was a good time, and we needed it. After dinner we met up the Browns, the senior pastors of Resolution Church, where Ashley feel we are called to be. We talked to them about how the church has come to be and where they see it going. We also discussed where Ashley and I can serve. It was a really good time, and I definitely feel like we got to know them better. Its so amazing/wierd/great/different/awesome at how quickly we feel like we are becoming part of the Resolution family. We just met for the first time 8 days ago, but they told us they missed us at church sunday morning and we were just chilling at there house as if it was something we always do. Its grood. great. good. great and good.
Tonight is the second meeting of ENCM on GSU’s campus, and I’m excitied for it! We are going to have an ice cream social, and introduce the topic of this semesters’ studies: leadership, facilitated by the Habitudes book. Ashley and I will head to GSU an hour or so early to start handing out cards to let everyone know about the ice cream social. Like Ashley has said, the students at GSU seem to not have many friends, so we hope we can reach those people who are desperate to make friends. There is so much potential at that campus, and I’m excited to see what God does there through Resolution!
God Bless. Be Real. Be Excellent.